All My Life
A vibrant romantic drama where fleeting moments collide with terminal tragedy. Through a sun-drenched lens, it captures the fragile beauty of a love that refuses to wait for a tomorrow that isn't promised.
All My Life
All My Life

"Based on a true love story."

23 October 2020 China 93 min ⭐ 7.8 (507)
Director: Marc Meyers
Cast: Jessica Rothe, Harry Shum Jr., Michael Masini, Chrissie Fit, Greg Vrotsos
Drama Romance
Carpe Diem (Living for the Moment) The Power of Community and Collective Support Resilience in the Face of Grief The Duality of Celebration and Mourning
Budget: $25,000,000
Box Office: $2,000,000

All My Life - Symbolism & Philosophy

Symbols & Motifs

Now or Never

Meaning:

It symbolizes the urgency of life and the necessity of taking risks. It transitions from a casual flirtation line to a life-defining philosophy and eventually the name of a bar opened by Sol's friends.

Context:

First used when Sol asks if he should cook for Jenn "now," and later adopted as the motto for their accelerated wedding plans.

Otis the Dog

Meaning:

Otis represents the presence of "bad news" and the reality of Sol's illness that the couple initially tries to ignore.

Context:

Sol suggests getting a dog if the news from the doctor is bad; he later surprises Jenn with Otis to signal that his cancer has returned.

Blue Converse All-Stars

Meaning:

A symbol of authentic love and a direct tribute to the real-life Jennifer Carter, representing a rejection of traditional wedding perfection in favor of personal significance.

Context:

Jenn wears these light blue sneakers under her wedding dress, a detail taken directly from the real-life wedding of Jennifer and Solomon.

27,375 Days

Meaning:

This number symbolizes the "average" human lifespan, used to contrast the quantitative length of life with the qualitative value of specific, memorable days.

Context:

Mentioned in Jenn's opening and closing monologues as she reflects on how few days people actually remember.

Philosophical Questions

What constitutes a 'quality of life'?

The film explores whether 'quality' is determined by physical comfort and medical survival or by the fulfillment of emotional milestones like a wedding.

Does knowing the end of a story devalue the beginning?

By showing the audience the terminal nature of the relationship from the start, the film asks if we can still invest in a journey whose destination is known tragedy.

Core Meaning

The core of the film is the philosophy of "Carpe Diem"—specifically the idea that the quality of a life is measured not by its duration in days, but by the intensity and meaning of the moments remembered. The director emphasizes that while tragedy is inevitable, the choice to face it with collective joy rather than isolated sorrow is a form of resilience. It suggests that community and love are the primary tools for transcending the finite nature of human existence.