"Every family has its own language."
CODA - Ending Explained
⚠️ Spoiler Analysis
The climax of "CODA" occurs at Ruby's audition for the Berklee College of Music. After a nervous start, she sees her family, who have secretly driven to Boston to support her, watching from the balcony. This gives her the confidence to perform Joni Mitchell's "Both Sides, Now." In a pivotal, deeply moving moment, she begins to use American Sign Language (ASL) to interpret the song's lyrics for them as she sings. This act is the ultimate synthesis of her two worlds, allowing her to finally share her passion directly with her family in their language.
Following the emotional audition, it is revealed that Ruby has been accepted into Berklee. The initial conflict of the film is resolved not by Ruby overcoming her family, but by her family evolving to support her. Her brother Leo had already pushed her to go, and after witnessing the emotional impact of her performance, her parents fully embrace her dream. They begin taking proactive steps to become more independent, such as hiring other hearing deckhands and learning to communicate more directly with the hearing fishing community, ensuring their business can survive without Ruby's constant presence.
The film ends with an emotional goodbye as Ruby prepares to leave for college. Her family drives her to meet her friend, and in a final, powerful moment of release, her father Frank, who is Deaf, audibly speaks the single word, "Go." As she drives away, Ruby looks back and signs "I really love you" to her family, a special, intensified version of the standard sign. The ending signifies that Ruby is free to pursue her dreams, not by abandoning her family, but by being lovingly set free by them, having found a way to honor both her past and her future.
Alternative Interpretations
While "CODA" is largely seen as a straightforward, heartwarming story, some alternative interpretations and critiques have emerged, particularly from within the Deaf community. One perspective critiques the film for perpetuating the narrative that disability is a burden on family members. From this viewpoint, Ruby's entire conflict stems from her family's deafness, framing their needs as an obstacle to her success, a trope some find problematic.
Another interpretation focuses on the film's relationship with music. Some critics, like Deaf writer Jenna Beacom, noted that centering a story about a Deaf family around a hearing person's passion for music—an art form primarily experienced through sound—can feel cliché and reinforces the idea that Deaf people's lives are defined by what they lack in relation to the hearing world. This view suggests the film could have explored the family's world more deeply on its own terms, rather than through the lens of a hearing protagonist's sensory experience.
Finally, a more cynical reading views the film's structure as being overly formulaic and emotionally manipulative. These interpretations suggest that while the representation is commendable, the story itself relies on predictable coming-of-age beats, making it a safe, palatable version of a Deaf story designed primarily for the comfort and emotional response of a hearing audience.