Tod@s Caen
A glossy high-stakes battle of the sexes where cynical dating manuals collide with the unpredictable messiness of the human heart, set against a vibrant urban landscape of neon-lit bars and ambitious dreams.
Tod@s Caen
Tod@s Caen
30 August 2019 Mexico 120 min ⭐ 7.8 (480)
Director: Ariel Winograd
Cast: Martha Higareda, Omar Chaparro, Claudia Álvarez, Mauricio Barrientos, Consuelo Duval
Comedy
Strategy vs. Authenticity Vulnerability as Strength Battle of the Sexes Friendship and Loyalty

Tod@s Caen - Symbolism & Philosophy

Symbols & Motifs

The Dating Rules/Manuals

Meaning:

They symbolize the emotional barriers and 'caparazón' (shell) that the characters have built to avoid the pain of heartbreak.

Context:

Both protagonists constantly quote their numbered rules to the camera, using them as a shield during dates and social interactions.

The TV Project

Meaning:

Represents Mia's professional ambition and her desire to externalize and validate her cynical worldview by teaching it to others.

Context:

Mia's goal is to produce a show titled 'Tod@s Caen' to empower women through these dating tactics.

The Titanic Door

Meaning:

A humorous symbol of romantic tropes and the 'space' in a relationship; it represents the film's self-aware approach to rom-com clichés.

Context:

Used during a parody sequence and in the credits where the cast debates the famous 'could Jack fit on the door' controversy.

Philosophical Questions

Does the gamification of dating kill the possibility of love?

The film explores whether turning romance into a series of win/loss strategies inherently destroys the spontaneity and trust required for a real relationship to bloom.

Is vulnerability a choice or an inevitability?

Through Mia and Adán, the film asks if humans can truly protect themselves forever, or if the 'fall' is a natural psychological event that overrides even the strictest personal rules.

Core Meaning

The core meaning of the film lies in the deconstruction of the 'armor' individuals build to protect themselves from emotional pain. Director Ariel Winograd explores the idea that while dating strategies and rules might offer a sense of control and safety, they ultimately act as barriers to true intimacy. The film suggests that the only way to find authentic love is to 'fall'—to abandon the safety of the game, embrace vulnerability, and allow oneself to be seen without a mask.